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You were never meant to shrink to be loved.
You were meant to set the standard — and be met there.
If you're tired of abandoning yourself just to keep the peace...
If you keep spiraling in uncertainty, overexplaining, or collapsing into old patterns…
If you’re done doing the emotional labor in your relationships —
It’s time to root into your truth and rise.
Her Standard is a transformational 3-month group experience for the woman who is ready to stop managing other people’s emotions and start honoring her own. It's for the woman who knows:
She doesn’t need to be more chill, more patient, more understanding. She needs to be met.
This isn’t about control. It’s about clarity. This isn’t about being high-maintenance. It’s about being self-respecting. This is the portal where you come home to the version of you who doesn’t negotiate her standards anymore.
Because when you raise your standard, the universe responds.
you'll walk away with...
💥 A deep, unshakable connection to your feminine truth — so you're no longer second-guessing, spiraling, or outsourcing your clarity
💃 A sense of being turned on, alive, and erotically expressed — moving freely in your body and heart, no longer dimming your radiance to be loved, and being PURSUED BY MEN who are magnetized by your gorgeous energy
🛑 The recognition of your personal survival strategies—like people-pleasing, over-functioning, collapsing, blaming him, or exploding after holding it all in — and the processes to heal them, shift them, and choose a new way of being.
🗣️ Communication that’s clean, honest, and powerful — no more overexplaining, emotional dumping, or trying to “fix” things to feel safe
🔥 A new standard for how you’re met — in love, in intimacy, in every relationship
💌 The energetic codes to attract (or deepen with) a masculine partner who meets you in devotion, polarity, and respect
💎 A felt sense of self-respect that doesn’t budge when things get hard
🌀 A sisterhood of women walking this path with you—holding you, celebrating you, and calling you forward when you forget who you are
🌊 A feeling of ease, flow, and surrender — because when you’re anchored in your standard, things start coming to you, and you stop chasing love, clarity, or validation
WHAT'S
Included
Live group calls
Monthly 90-min Zoom calls over 3 months (3 total), where we drop into the real stuff, clear emotional blocks, and anchor your standard through embodied coaching and practice.
Recorded video modules
Foundational teachings to shift your survival strategy, embody your feminine power, and deepen your clarity in love (self-paced).
Ongoing group support
Telegram group access for real-time support, celebration, and guidance between calls.
Rituals & practices
Feminine embodiment tools and rituals to integrate the work beyond mindset — and into your nervous system.
1:1 Coaching
6 private 1:1 deep dive session to support your personal initiation into emotional sovereignty and love.
This is for you if...
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You keep finding yourself in relationship dynamics that drain you or confuse you
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You’re tired of being the one who always has to bring clarity, initiate the hard conversations, or fix what’s off
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You collapse or spiral when things feel uncertain—and it’s costing you your self-trust
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You long to be met by a masculine partner who respects your standards, meets your depth, and leads with devotion
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You have sacrificed your radiance and life energy to serve his
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You’re ready to be surrounded by women who see you, hold you, and call you into your highest standard
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You’re no longer available for breadcrumb love, distorted polarity, or shrinking to keep someone around. You’re ready to live from your standard—and be met there.
HER
Standard
MAY 18 - AUGUST 18, 2025
INCLUDES:
3 90-MIN GROUP INITIATIONS OVER 3 MONTHS (VALUE 1K)
SELF-PACED RECORDED VIDEO MODULES (VALUE 3K)
TELEGRAM GROUP ACCESS (PRICELESS)
FEMININE EMBODIMENT TOOLS & RITUALS (PRICELESS)
6 PRIVATE 1:1 DEEP DIVE SESSION (VALUE 3K)
$3333
EARLY BIRD (UNTIL MAY 12)
$4444
REGULAR
FAQs
IS THIS FOR WOMEN IN RELATIONSHIPS OR SINGLE WOMEN?
BOTH. WHETHER YOU’RE CALLING IN A NEW PARTNER OR NAVIGATING DYNAMICS IN AN EXISTING ONE, THIS WORK ANCHORS YOU INTO THE STANDARD YOU WANT TO BE MET FROM.
WHAT IF I CAN’T MAKE EVERY LIVE CALL?
REPLAYS WILL BE AVAILABLE FOR ALL CALLS, AND THE TELEGRAM GROUP ENSURES YOU STILL RECEIVE REAL-TIME SUPPORT AND INTEGRATION.
WILL I GET PERSONAL SUPPORT FROM YOU?
YES. THERE IS SPACE FOR HOT-SEAT COACHING IN EVERY CALL, GROUP CHAT SUPPORT BETWEEN CALLS, AND YOUR 6 PRIVATE 1:1 SESSION INCLUDED.
A NOTE FROM Charlotte
I created Her Standard because I lived the breakdowns that happen when we betray ourselves to maintain “connection.”
For years, I thought if I just loved harder, communicated better, or gave more space—I could make it work.
But the truth was: I wasn’t holding myself. I wasn’t honoring my standard.
This work is what allowed me to be met in the way my soul was craving. It’s why I now walk with women who are ready to do the same.
You don’t have to keep performing, spiraling, or proving. You get to be held, anchored, and honored—in the full truth of who you are.
The truth is, time alone didn’t heal my survival strategies—my people-pleasing, my attachment wounds, or the quiet resentment I held toward men. What changed everything was having the right support, guidance, and space to take aligned action. That’s what I’m here to offer you—because healing doesn’t come from waiting. It comes from choosing.
If you’ve been waiting for a sign… let this be it.
Charlotte is a source of infinite wisdom and strength. She is a Warriorress for the evolution of humanity through the healing and liberation of women by helping them master their emotional terrain. This is her heart’s work. Being in her space is stepping into pure Possibility—and if you let it, it will change your life.
NICOLE WAGNER
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